Ral has been learning about hurricanes in school this week. I have been impressed with his knowledge of hurricane names, categories, and paths. Yesterday he sounded just like a Weather Channel meteorologist when he was explaining the storm - even using some toy blocks to demonstrate the hurricane hitting Puerto Rico and NC.
I reminded him that Grandma Mary lives on the NC coast, so when the hurricane is over he can talk to her about it and what it was like. (Ral wanted to go to the Outer Banks this weekend b/c he REALLY wants to see a hurricane! Ummm..no. We're not becoming storm chasers, Ral!)
Last night Ral was on the phone with my mama telling her all about the storm and what to expect. She told me that he sounded like the weather guy from Channel 3 in Wilmington! Raleigh told my mama that since she would not be safe in Wilmington b/c of Earl, she should come to Mtn. City. I thought the conversation would end like it normally does when Mama says no b/c of her wheelchair and the kids accept that answer.
Not this time.
Not when there is a hurricane involved.
Ral continued asking her to come up here. He told her she would be nice and safe in beautiful Mtn. City. When she continued to turn him down he even offered for us to come down and get her! She must have said something about her wheelchair not being able to fit in the house but he assured her, "We'll make it work, Grandma Mary!" He even offered her a massage if she would come to Mtn. City to escape Hurricane Earl :)
My sweet Raleigh. I LOVE his compassion. I love his persistance.
Oh how I WISH that Grandma Mary could come here during the Hurricane. In fact, I WISH that she could come for regular visits and get to enjoy all of the grandma things she always talked about. I WISH my kids could know my mama like she was - before the wheelchair. Her paralysis and it's limitations are "normal" to my kids - and to me now. Last night's conversation just made me WISH that our normal was different...